Friday, June 26, 2009

Exercise Inspiration

As I’ve previously stated, I am not a lover of exercise.  I do it because it needs to get done.  When my kids are grown and out of the house, I plan to live my second youth, and I’m going to have a damn fine figure when I do!

Anyway, yesterday I decided to take a Pilates class at my gym.  It had been years since I took part in any exercise class and this was the first I’d be taking at my current gym.  I was feeling a bit unsure about it, picturing lots of slim twenty-somethings prancing around with their perfectly fit bodies and me with my belly rolls hanging all over the place, so I was pleasantly surprised by the group that did show up for the class.  There were young women, old women, overweight women and one man in the class.  They were a group that clearly knew each other from classes and didn’t hesitate to both encourage and poke fun at one another – the instructor included.  I was not spared either – taunted for my “happy legs” which trembled from fatigue for pretty much the entire class.  It was perfect – I fit right in!

The great part about taking a group fitness class, or working out with a partner, is the encouragement to “push harder” you get from those around you and from seeing that not everyone is in better shape than you are – that all those workouts you’ve struggled through actually had an impact. We’re all there for the same reason, to feel good and look good and sometimes when you work out on your own, at least for me, it becomes too much of a chore and not fun.

If you’re able, work out with someone, whether it be in a class at your gym, or a neighbor or friend that you walk with.  It makes the effort so much more pleasant and inspiring.

Wednesday, June 24, 2009

Six weeks to squeeze it all in

Last week I flew my kids across the country to their father’s house where they will spend the summer.  I’ve never been away from my kids for more than a week, so the build up to the trip was a mix of anxiety and anticipation.  Anxiety over how they (and I) will fare without one another, and anticipation at the thought of SIX WHOLE WEEKS OF ME TIME!!

So, now that they are settled and happy at Dad’s I’ve begun the Summer of Me, for which my plans are to have fun and get fit.  The fun part is obvious - the freedom to go where I want, when I want, which will of course include lots of dates with my boyfriend.  The fit part is to finally shift the ten-or-so-pounds that are preventing me from slipping back into my beautiful, caramel colored, size 4 leather pants, much to my boyfriend’s dismay. 

I’ve started the fit plan by switching to a pescetarian diet.  Essentially, I’ll be a vegetarian that eats eggs, dairy and fish.  This will be a stretch for me because I love a good burger, but by eliminating meat I’ll be forced to focus my meals more around vegetables. 

I’ve also begun twice a day workouts.  This will be an even bigger stretch for me than the diet because I am not one of those people who becomes euphoric over a workout.  I workout for one reason and one reason only – because I have to.  Sad but true.  Who knows, maybe the intense exercise I have planned this summer will flick a switch somewhere inside me and I’ll become one of those people you see running in a blinding snowstorm because they HAVE TO GET THEIR RUN IN.  You never know.

Anyway, I plan to update you on my fun and my fitness efforts throughout the summer, and hopefully by the end I’ll be able to post a picture of me in the leather pants with, of course, a killer pair of heels.

Tuesday, June 9, 2009

Sane and sexy

People say that motherhood is the hardest job in the world.  If that's true, then single motherhood is the hardest job in the world with mandatory-overtime-without-extra-pay-and-yes-you're-working-the-holiday-weekend. 

I can say that because I am a single mother.

All moms, but single moms especially, end up living much of their lives for their kids.  I know I do.  I work full time from home and my only weekday ventures from the house are school drop-offs (two of them), school pick-ups (two of them) and trips to shuttle my thirteen year old son to where he "needs" to be.

Work, school runs, shuttle.  Add grocery shopping and meal prep and that sums up 98% of my life these days.  Quite honestly, I'm bored and I'm craving more in my life.  It may be taboo to say it, but I can't wait for my afterlife - that is, life after the kids move out.  I LOVE my kids, but I love myself too and I refuse to give up on who I'm meant to be.  This blog was created to share my efforts in staying young, sexy, smart and financially sound so that when it's time to live my life for ME - I'll be ready.

Wine and heels are two of my pleasures in life that I refuse to give up.  They are keeping me sane and sexy during the mommy years.